If you know me at all, you know that I have a
bleeding heart that would make Mother Theresa proud (when it comes to dogs). I love
their friendship, their loyalty, their willingness to play, and their inability
to hold a grudge. I’ve been privileged to take in several dogs so far during
my lifetime, but it never ceases to break my heart when I realize that there
are so many more dogs that I can’t help. For every one I take in, I’m sure
there are ten or twelve more that need good homes. I call them throw-away dogs because someone
did just that. I’ve seen pups that have been starved, shot, neglected, and
beaten. I’ve watched those same pups turn into fantastic dogs…friends for
life…with just regular meals and a healthy serving of love.
Hannibal Hayes was my first throw-away dog. I
remember meeting him for the first time at a church dinner. Someone had thrown
him out around the church. As far as many of the congregation were concerned,
the puppy that was roaming around outside was a nuisance. One of them even told
me to stay away from him because he had rabies (or something). I guess, even as
a four or five year old, I wasn’t very trusting, so I asked my mom what was
wrong with the puppy. Mom told me that the dog was starving.
As it happened, we were having a dinner that night, and
everything on my plate became food for the throw-away dog. He came home with me
that night (despite the fact that it was in the early eighties, and everyone was
poor), and I was introduced to taking care of my first throw-away dog.
He was small and neglected, but we found out he was largely, if not fully, Catahoula Cur. (Catahoulas
have remained one of my favorite breeds of dog because of Hannibal Hayes.) He
started out as a small puppy and grew into a dog that was nearly waist high on
a five-foot-nine inch tall person. He was huge, but he was gentle and
protective and all of the best things.
Hannibal Hayes would hold anyone's hand...in his mouth...while they were outside because I’d led him around by a stick held the same way.
If you didn’t hold a stick, he held your hand. He guarded the house, running
off prowlers and played gently with me and other kids. To this day, I don’t know why someone threw
him away.
When I was in college, Angel was found in Tulsa, running scared. She was a mix. She might have been a bit Blue Heeler; she might have been Catahoula. (Who knows for sure?) She had that kind of coloring. A friend of my dad’s found her but couldn’t keep her because she needed more space to run. Believe me; she needed the space to run.
When I was in college, Angel was found in Tulsa, running scared. She was a mix. She might have been a bit Blue Heeler; she might have been Catahoula. (Who knows for sure?) She had that kind of coloring. A friend of my dad’s found her but couldn’t keep her because she needed more space to run. Believe me; she needed the space to run.
Angel would ricochet off the back of the couch. I
don’t know how, but that dog could run almost parallel to the floor. She would
run around and around the house. I’m not sure what she was excited about, maybe
just that she was loved. She was so crazy that we called her “Wild Dog”. She
chewed books and shoes and toys, and she loved to be brushed.
Like all dogs, she aged. When I came home and found her dead, I was broken. She’d been a good friend to me, gone on walks with me, and taken care of me for years. I had to move her out of the house, but I could never put her in a trash bag or something old and torn up, so I picked my brand new beach towel to wrap around my Angel so I could transport her to her graveside. You know she deserved so much more, but I couldn’t have wrapped her in anything less.
Like all dogs, she aged. When I came home and found her dead, I was broken. She’d been a good friend to me, gone on walks with me, and taken care of me for years. I had to move her out of the house, but I could never put her in a trash bag or something old and torn up, so I picked my brand new beach towel to wrap around my Angel so I could transport her to her graveside. You know she deserved so much more, but I couldn’t have wrapped her in anything less.
Not too long after I lost Angel, my sister brought me
a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. She is an AKC register-able, furry ball of
sunshine, but she is also a throw-away dog. Her name is Pumpkin. She guards
grocery bags and tries to chase chickens and lets me dress her in puppy
clothes. Actually, she loves the puppy clothes, and she will try to prevent you from taking her clothes away. She plays a loud, growly game that nobody understands (except her). She guards grocery bags with food from the cat and other dogs, but she’s
not really big enough to actually do any damage if she needed to. She also
guards my rice-filled heat pack, and she’s my baby.
She was abandoned with two others at their groomer
who passed them on to a friend of my sister’s who worked until she found good homes for all three. When my sister found out about the little darlings, she asked
if she could have Pumpkin for me. When she brought Pumpkin to me, I wasn’t
fully expecting it. I tell my sister that Pumpkin is the best present she never
bought me. For the life of me, I can’t understand how anyone
could abandon that sweetie-peach. She’s got the best personality, and she’s
travel sized!
That brings me to Bridget. Bridget was found in the
woods, covered in ticks, starving, with injuries from bird shot and a broken
leg. And, oh yes, she was guarding her brother’s body. She was taken to a local
rescue then turned over to a local veterinarian.
When I picked Bridget up, she was sweet and gentle,
but she was wearing a splint and still had a swollen place from the bird shot
wound. She was also severely emaciated…even though she had gained weight since
being rescued. I sincerely doubt that she could have lived much longer on her
own.
She had to go to weekly vet appointments and have her splint checked and re-wrapped. (Her veterinarian taught my sister and I how to wrap it, just in case Bridget messed it up or slipped out of it.) It took Bridget about six weeks of care, but she is out of the splint and working on gaining more weight (still).
She had to go to weekly vet appointments and have her splint checked and re-wrapped. (Her veterinarian taught my sister and I how to wrap it, just in case Bridget messed it up or slipped out of it.) It took Bridget about six weeks of care, but she is out of the splint and working on gaining more weight (still).
Over the past few weeks (since she’s been out of the
splint), I’ve watched an almost timid dog metamorphosize into a very active
bird dog. She’s stubborn, but smart. She’s playful and wants attention all of
the time. She's very friendly and loving, and she'll wrap her paws around your arm to keep you close.
No, I don't understand why people do the things they do, and I can't tell you why dogs don't hold grudges. I CAN tell you that some of the best dogs that I've ever had are throw-away dogs. I won't say not to purchase a dog, but I am a big fan of adopting. So, adopt a dog if you can. Yes, sometimes they have bad habits, and sometimes you have to work with them to overcome those habits. However, it's worth the trouble.
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| Bridget's first day with me. Look at how sad and thin she was. Below you can see her progress beginning in the summer of 2013 through the spring of 2014. She's changed a lot. |


I agree! These dogs are the best kind of dogs. Almost all of my dogs have been throw-away dogs and most of them have been wonderful.
ReplyDeleteMine too. I love dogs, and I don't understand how people can mistreat them!
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